My Mom, Scott, and brother, James, all drove down from Canada for an extended stay with us over the past few days. This was SUCH A TREAT. It was the first time in a long time that we were actually together for longer than a two-day weekend, and while it was so so so nice to have them here, it made me realize how much I really miss them. And I miss them a lot.
When I made the decision to move to Ohio to pursue my relationship with Brian, I did not realize how much I would miss my family and friends and the surroundings that I grew up in and knew my whole life. It really wasn't until I moved away and had been away for a few years that it actually hit me pretty hard that I missed everyone and everything that I've ever known tremendously.
That thought and feeling surprised me. I moved 5 hours away from my home town of Columbia, MD when I went to
college and lived an hour away from that home town when I graduated and took my first full time job. I like to travel, I like to experience new things, I like to explore and play and learn. Apparently, I also like to put roots down.
I guess I really didn't know what I had til it was gone, but hindsight is 20/20, and that is a lesson that I've learned time and time again.
I do really like Columbus, Ohio, my new home town. And it is really great to be in close proximity to Brian's wonderful family. We are both employed here, we've bought a house here, attempted way too many times to teach our dog to walk properly and not pull incessantly (still not a success), and are currently raising our daughter here. Brian has a lot of friends here and I'm working on making mine, and there are four distinct and wonderful seasons of the year. We are definitely spreading our roots.
But it pains me a little that it feels so far from my home. From my familiar.
What I've realized though is that "spreading roots" does not mean that you will be somewhere forever. Who knows what the future holds. (I promise there is a point here.) "Spreading roots"
is not necessarily a literal expression, as in planting yourself somewhere and not going anywhere else. "Spreading roots" is a metaphorical expression, meaning to spread or connect yourself to the important people in your life so that no matter where you are they are always there with you. Spreading roots horizontally through family and friends, weaving in and out of time, not vertically, down into the soil so that you are stuck wherever you are planted. (At least that is what I am telling myself these days.)
Whether we are here in Ohio, in Maryland, in any other part of the United States, or the world, we will work continuously to keep spreading our roots, to keep our family and friends in our lives, and to keep our values and our morals close to heart. It's not easy, but it makes the times that we are together so very precious and meaningful. No one ever promised life would be easy anyway!
Having my parents and brother in town was a little slice of heaven the past few days. I am going through a serious withdrawal not seeing them here and having them so near. I miss them dearly, all of my family and friends, but I am extremely thankful and grateful for the time that we had together. Extremely. It was a dose of home that I didn't know I needed.
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We went to the Franklin Park Conservatory to see the blooms
and butterflies! |
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Mom caught a little butterfly! |
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So Kate got to see it up close! |
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She also got to see it fly away! |
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Miss Independent! |
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Exploring the jungle! |
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SQUIRREL! Oh, wait...WATERFALL! |
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Pretty orchids! |
We did a lot of catching up and had a lot of quality time, so there aren't a lot of photos just timeless memories! We did make a stop at Franklin Park Conservatory to see the Blooms (read: orchids) and Butterflies display (photos above) and we did host a
fabulous dinner with Brian's parents (photos below)!
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At the heart of every Grandma, is still a Granddaughter! |
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The photo above reminds me of this one taken just one day
after Kate was born. Those Grandma's just don't age a bit,
but Kate has tripled in size! |
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Kate's new thing is hiding between the door and the screen door and waiting for you to find her... |
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Pointing at something... |
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...and something else... |
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Do they see me?! |
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"HERE I AM!!!" |
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Sockless with a sippy cup in hand - a common sight these days! |
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We HEART these people SO MUCH! |
I'd be lying if I said my heart wouldn't break a little bit if Kate decided to move 6.5 hours away chasing after some boy. (I don't even want to think about that honestly.) But if that is what made her happy, I would support her decision and I would do my best to keep our roots deep.
I'd also try not to cry myself to sleep every night, but I suppose that is neither here nor there.